Monday, 23 November 2015

Do what you love, not what you think you love | Aimee Bell MUA

Recently it has come to my attention that a lot of people do things in life for the sake of others opinions and not because its something they want to do. Each day we are reminded that life is too short to be doing something you are unhappy doing so why not take charge now to improve yourself & your life to make sure you enjoy every minute of every day.

As some of you will know I have decided its time to say goodbye to my Pixie cut and have been growing it for the last 2 months for the aim that in february, I'm going to get extensions installed in a blunt lob type style and hopefully get it black/grey ombre. Whether its on social media or at work or in the general public, everyone has had their opinion on it. 'You suit long hair so much better' ' No I love your short hair' 'I prefer you with short hair' ' I prefer you with long hair' & so on! head blag right ha! For the last year I have been trying and failing to grow my hair and now i think its because of the amount of people that said they preferred me with short hair that I got it cut again. i do love my short hair but I have had it long enough and just want to be able to get up and shove my hair up in a bobble! Thats how I feel my life is taking me now & I want to feel bit more girly again! So sod it I'm doing what i want to do regardless of anyone else, as in the end I want to be happy with myself and how confident i am. 

Ive had other girlies write to me saying the same thing about how they are only doing things to please their parents or there partners, friends etc & they hate it! 

You shouldn't have to be miserable doing something because you feel like you have to to make someone you know proud. You should do what you want to do & what you feel happy doing! 

So quit your job and go and be a an IT Geek or a Fashion Blogger, or Formula 1 driver whatever you want to do go and do it! We spend too much of our lives doing things to make others happy rather than taking a step back and make ourselves happy! Dye your hair Green or pink! Chop all of your hair off, eat that donut, wear glamorous makeup on a daily basis! Do what makes you happy & no-one will be able to tell you wrong.

If you stuck and don't know where to start, drop me an email to: and I will try my best to help you as I have been in that rut of life not knowing how to change it or making me happy... Now I'm taking action and its about time too! 22 years later isn't too late to start ha! 

The next thing I have to tackle is my healthier lifestyle, but as the boozier season begins and the cold weather has now officially hit its hard to think about fruit, exercise, smoothies & more blankets, pjs, and chocolate ha! 

What things do you want to change? Have you set your new years resolutions yet? Would you like to be part of a team to conquer all? Let me know and I can create a group chat for you all to help each other together!! 

Have a nice cosy evening! Lots of Love A xxxxx